Here's everything you'll need to do that
• You want to work less and live more, travel the world, have more giggles with your kids, brunch with your girls, dinners with your boo, work a low stress job or business, and have disposable income
• You're not here to repeat your old patterns of people pleasing, always being 'on' or working 10X harder to be acknowledged, and not getting to rest, make mistakes or be human because you're taking all the responsibility to keep yourself & everyone else afloat
• You're ready to detox your workaholic tendencies, reinvent your identity, and build a life driven by your values rather then someone else's needs so that you can live the soft life you deserve to live
Your in spark is dying or is almost out
Leaving you feeling like you're behind in life and wondering if you're too far behind to catch up
You're burnt out & going to work feels like going to war
You're tire of armoring up to protect your heart and dreams every day
I want to be happy, but smiling is the best I've got right now
I can't remember the last time my joy reached my eyes and my heart (but I damn sure want it to be the core of everything I do)
-Rashidat Odeyemi
[From always choosing to make work my priority to becoming empowered AF to say "work is only a tool" and taking the pressure off to be Black Excellence, showing up fully as myself without the armor and living from joy, rest, & peace of mind]
It's time to embody your unique version of being strong as a Black woman without having to be responsible for keeping everything & everyone a float. You get to be soft, make mistakes, have needs, and, most importantly, learn to ask for and receive help over and over again.
Let's get you there
You shouldn't have to dim your light or bulldoze your way through life to succeed in this world. You'll learn how to define who you are without your job title as the forefront, cultivate a new way of managing your resources to serve you, and heal your workaholic coping mechanisms so you can finally stop choosing work over finding a partner, traveling the world, or having kids, and can Naomi Campbell Walk into the soft life you crave.
This is the secret sauce! Your mindset is your lifestyle and something you can manipulate (in your favor). Amplify your ability to have more joy, deep rest, fun, and ease in your life.
...Feeling peace of mind, fun, rested, & sexy.
...Free from work life imbalance guilt, exhaustion, & the pressure to prove you can handle everything without help.
AND being audacious enough to step into your iconic self.
Go from workaholic to soft life with my lived, proven method. It's private, 1:1 support from me to create your work less, live more soft lifestyle.
+ Disrupt and agitate your inherent workaholic conditioning so you are free to be YOU (on sparkly renaissance steroids)
+ Shed the identity you thought you should have so you can stand firm in who you are and what you want without obligation of the Strong Black Woman trope (the will always weigh down every decision you make)
+ Settle into the ultimate adventure of coming back home to who you were meant to be so you can once and for all stop armoring up to protect your identity and dreams and embody your rightful place as Queen in your life
+ Bring you the courage, boldness and tenacity of spirit to choose yourself, your dreams, and your peace of mind rather than overextending yourself to keep other's responsibilities afloat
+ The ultimate Renaissance - release the stress and see your body finally settle into rest (and the way I teach you is not this harmful way of recounting all your trauma in talk therapy). Your frequency uplevels and expect to attract work less, live more aligned opportunities, people and circumstances into your world.
+ You're in rest again and become the harvester of your joy and happiness. You can't help but be excited by life. You ooze restoration everywhere you go and finally feel a sense of deep harmony both within yourself and life.
Over the next 6 months of weekly session, we'll zero in on what makes you default to prioritizing work and using my unique methodology The Life Edit Method we will heal and integrate anything and everything that is standing in the way of you materializing your work less, live more lifestyle that sets your light and soul ablaze. Here's a snapshot of my method...
MY LIFE-CHANGING METHODOLOGY RUNS THROUGH EVERYTHING I TEACH AND IS BASED UPON 4 PHASES AND THE 5 SOUL LESSONS.
The Workaholic Detox. From your inherent conditioning (from racism, upbringing, & life experiences) stop being 'on' all the time and show up as your authentic self all day in all ways without feeling like you have to work 10X harder to get your flowers.
Develop Soft Life Discipline. Use your resources - your time, energy, and money - to serve you rather than being stuck in emergency and survival mode. Have a clear vision of the life your creating plus a plan of action so you can feel confident of what to do (and what not to do) to get the life transformation you want.
The Workaholic Exit Plan. Just starting will only take you so far. For you to make rest and joy a lifestyle amid work, we evolve your mindset about the part work plays in your life and shifts your focus to guide your life based on your values & passions. When you prioritize your values & passions and use money as the tool, not the goal, to live these things every day you feel safe to rest without the world falling apart around you when you do.
The Soft Life Emergence. The courage, clarity and boldness to live your definition of success is living life on your terms. Refine your plan to continue doing what serves you & stop doing what doesn't; live your work less, live more lifestyle with every decision and action you make.
You will simplify your responsibilities, automate scheduled time for rest and fun throughout the week and year (without feeling guilty for creating boundaries) and create and build your 10 year vision map that prioritizes your values and eliminates draining obligations.
Onboarding & Prep for Success Call:
The Meant for More Self-Study Course: Everything you need to build your work less, live more lifestyle – trainings, video lessons, tutorials, and more
Weekly Coaching Calls: In addition to your 1:1 calls, you'll get extra support within a group setting to hear other's experiences so we can learn from each other's mistakes and get to joy and freedom even quicker.
Client Only Boutique Community: A distraction free community of like-minded freedom catchers to connect with for celebration, encouragement, and accountability during your adventure
Clients Only portal with step-by-step trainings: Rather than a library trainings where you have to figure out what you need to do next, you'll have a guided path and curriculum to simplify your process.
Worksheets to guide you through every step (digital & analog copies available! )
-Rebecca Frantz
Throughout our time together you will learn how to embody the 5 soul lessons which become your new (unshakeable) foundation from which you can continue to evolve again and again and again. Cuz this personal growth adventure never stops 🎢
"Before working with Rashidat I had a habit of making 'loosely sculpted goals' and the things I read about how she helped her clients create structure and systems to create and accomplish their goals was exactly what I was looking for and needed. Now I have focus, and the ability to deal with the fires that happen in the week without getting off track and I'm so much better at getting the RIGHT thing done.
The way Rashidat describes goal making and it being in far more areas of my life than I had ever kind of thought...
Personal life and work - that's kind of the limitation that I had for myself, but she really blew that like out and expanded it in really nice ways that allowed me to start thinking a lot differently, a lot more authentically, I think, because when you really want to improve in an area, you do need to take into account other things that are happening in your life.
So I think it gave me just a much better scope of everything that's going on and creates a really more profound structure to goal making.
[From loosely sculpted goals, inconsistent projects in her business, and not being able to help financially - to - getting clear on the systems she needed in her life and biz, increasing her prices, getting larger projects, partnering with other artists, & interviewing to hire: less busy work, more life and time to do her passion TO CREATE!]
Recovering workaholic, reformed strong Black woman, and Your Dream Strategist with 4 years experience as a coach, yet 25 years experience of getting out of my own way to achieve my dreams. Here to help you go from workaholic to your work less, live more lifestyle and leave behind that outdated strong Black woman trope.
Sick of building the old American Dream that never served me, it's my mission to live my work less, live more lifestyle and help you live yours, too. While some believe that being a workaholic is the only way to succeed, we're a community of Black women that are successful because we're confident in who we are, not what we do, and we have freedom - financial, time and energy, location and lifestyle - grounded in our values to be ourselves and enjoy our lives.
BA IN FASHION DESIGN WITH A MINOR IN BUSINESS
CORPORATE DROPOUT
WORLD TRAVELER & FORMER INTERNATIONAL MISSIONARY
RECOVERING WORKAHOLIC
POPCORN AFICIONADO, ASPIRING TINY HOUSE OWNER, VEGANI-ISH FOODIE
FOUNDER OF YOUR DREAM STRATEGIST
Yes I climbed the corporate ladder, served communities around the world, been featured on multiple podcasts, and have lived and visited in 30+ cities domestically & internationally, my most notable accolade is being able to be present when my Goddaughters were born and having the lifestyle freedom to spend months with friends and family anywhere in the world at anytime without having to ask for time off.
My approach isn't for everyone. Make sure I'm the best fit for your investment & apply below. Investments average $3000 and 6 months of working together (and yes, we offer payment plans & funding options)
You're finally here to say YES to YOU. Embrace this incredibly powerful time in your life. Say goodbye to conditioning like working 10X harder to be seen as Black woman to being 'on' all the time and overextending your responsibility to keep everyone else afloat because they're the repeat patterns that keep you burnt out.
You're motivated to shift how you show up fr yourself at work and in relationships with yourself and others to put your face mask on first (and ready to savor it of course) and aren't here to eff girl around any longer
You're tired of trying to find the perfect career, company, or business to stop your workaholic tendencies. You realize it's YOU that needs to change. You're crazing zero BS, healing and a vibrant coach focused (and highly experienced) in guiding workaholic women
You're not willing or ready to ditch old patterns that justify your workaholic tendencies and pursuit of Black excellence
You're still attached to work-harder-to-succeed fantasies, working to avoid dealing with fact that you don't know how to take care of yourself anymore, trying to climb the corporate ladder or blaming burnout for all your current problems
You're not willing to go deep into who you really are and why you do the things you do
You have no interest in understanding your true self and living life on your own terms
A: I know that the term "soft life" is defined a few different ways across the interwebs, so I usually name the life we're creating as a work less, live more lifestyle and here's what that looks like to me...
You get to make a choice of what you want your life to be about rather than just taking whatever you get.
It's a life where you don't have to armor up all the time.
It's a life where you don't have to be 'on' all the time
Choosing to ditch the pressure of capitalism to succeed, achieve Black excellence, or prove your worth
It's a life you're not trying to escape when you go on vacation and instead vacation life, travel and whatever else you love is just a part of life!
It's building a life where you're enough and can show up in your strengths and thrive!
A: First and foremost, work + work ≠ freedom, but I'm also not saying don't work hard. Instead, I'm saying don't make your work your identity. Don't let it define you; There's so much more to you than that! Don't just work hard. Make time to play hard, laugh hard, rest hard, and all the things you love - go hard on them, too!
A: I work with workaholics because she's me. From a child I've been taught to be a workaholic and constantly rewarded for it. I was a workaholic student, a workaholic corporate professional, a workaholic entrepreneur, and I'm a strong Black woman. I work with this market because I've lived the struggles and I share the changes I've made and how it's changed my life because I now know what it feels like to be free and I want to other feel that, too.
A: I like to help people who are at the point where they know they need a change and have tried some other things that just have NOT worked and need a way to get unstuck. The golden ticket for me at that moment in my adventure was to redefine success for myself, but most people have a hard time dreaming of what their new life could be when they've been stuck for so long. The secret sauce of Meant for More is making the process of redefining success simple, fun empowering, and encouraging.
A: You're going to go from:
❌ Struggling to make time for rest & feeling guilty about it when you do rest
❌ Dreading going to work because it’s a catalyst of stress that makes you have to protect your mind, heart, & peace because it’s not a space where you can be vulnerable or even human
❌ Panic attacks, high blood pressure, hustle culture & consumerism
❌ Trying to get their finances together in hopes that you finally arrive
to
✅ Rejecting the struggle, stress, & anxiety that come with the workaholic rat race become the Anti-Superhero, Anti-Girl Boss, anti toxic productivity, & anti hustle culture.
✅ Prioritize joy, experiencing life, & leaning into aspects of your job that you truly love without tying it to your identity
✅ Setting boundaries so you can work less & live more
✅ Living by the mindset that gives you permission to cultivate balance, awareness of self, & joy
It's a life of waking up without an alarm - time freedom ⏰, a life where you don’t have to be on all the time - energy freedom ⚡️, with the ability to financially support yourself in a low stress job that includes enough money to have disposable income - debt & financial freedom 💰.
A: This is the first thing we'll do inside of Meant for More. We'll pull out your character, your strengths, your values, what you want to be known for to define who you are now that you no longer let your title be the most important thing about you!
A: Yes! We never want money to hold anyone back from living their work less, live more lifestyle so we have both payment plans and third party funding available to meet your financial needs.
A: Yes! This program is built specifically for Black American women. That being said, I've also worked with all genders and races. If you're interested in working submit your application and we'll discuss available options during your free strategy call.
A: All coaching programs, courses, & digital product purchases are final, though if you are struggling to implement the practices, contact us for additional support